May all your dreams come true !

One lesson that we must all learn in life is that there are going to be people in our lives and in the world period who just won't understand our dreams, and won't understand the goals that we set for ourselves in life. While some won't understand, some will refuse to understand as well, some will mock you, and some will try to talk you out of going for a dream that is just "too big" for you to ac...complish, in their opinion.

The truth is, if your dreams don't scare you, then they probably aren't big enough dreams that you have set for yourself. We have to have strong faith in what burns inside of our hearts, and we must also hold to the fact that with God's grace, and with a strong undetermined will, nothing can stop us from being where we want, and know we should be in life, no matter how much negativity we receive from people in our lives.

Let your dreams guide you.

More often than not we are pushed and swayed by our problems, and are greatly influenced into following a path that we know would generate the least resistance, instead of keeping our eyes on the prize and going after what we dream of achieving. I am here to tell you today not to be swayed by tough times.

Don't let a rough day at work influence you to quit before you know you don't have any othe...r options. Don't let your boyfriend or girlfriend talk you into cutting out your dreams in life in order to make sure that they will stick by you, because if they really loved you they would stick by you no matter what. Don't let unexpected challenges or circumstances, which arise in everyone's life, deter you from your goals and aspirations.

Let your dreams guide you. When things start to get hard, and when you feel like giving up everything, remember what you are doing it for, remember your dreams, and use them as motivation to keep going

Mel !

You are perfect .

When we are insecure about situations, in actuality we are holding on to some experience(s) that caused us tremendous anguish earlier in our lives to the point of where we don't want to allow a situation or relationship of similar magnitude to take place again. In order to get past our insecurities we must first get rid of the mindset of living in our past.

Just because you weren't good enough f...or something then, doesn't mean that you are not good enough now, just because you weren't able to accomplish something then, doesn't mean that you won't accomplish it now. Let go of your pain, and believe in the fact that the only limits that bind you, are those limits that you place on yourself. We are all perfect people with perfect imperfections. Remember to not only enjoy your life but to take advantage of the opportunities that life presents to you as well. Live every day as if it could be your last!

Mel!

Today is a new day...

Single is not a status .

Sure being in love is a great place in life to be in, but being and living single is also an important portion of life to live through as well, and also has its perks. Though 2 out of 5 people remain with their first love for life, 3 out of 5 people don't, and live single for at the least, a small while. When you are single it is very important to capitalize on this opportunity. You may or may not... enjoy being single, but you must make the best of it by gathering yourself together as much as possible.

Since you don't have to worry about maintaining a relationship with someone else, you have a lot more time to focus on yourself, the achievement of your goals and dreams, and really determine the qualities and characteristics that you may desire in your next mate. Take your time when you are single, gather your focus and strength to best prepare you for the world and your soul mate!

Mel !

Don't cheat !!!

Sometimes in relationships we feel that we owe the other person too much loyalty to just leave, and commit act of disloyalty such as cheating in order to try to fulfil ourselves in parts of our life in which we aren't getting fulfilment. Whatever the "excuse" is, whether we are unhappy, or if a relationship is leaving you unsatisfied, there is never any good reason to commit any acts of disloyalty..., especially cheating.

First of all, the truth is no matter what we are going to be attracted to others that we are not in a relationship with, these desires are an instinctual portion of the human psyche, plain and simple, it is inevitable. The main point to remember is that the best way to show your lover that you aren't happy is not to cheat, but is instead to communicate to your love directly how you feel and why you feel the way you do. Be honest with your partner and if things can not be worked out, go your separate ways, instead of inflicting more emotion pain on them by being dishonest and unfaithful.

Mel !!!

Trust yourself and trust the Universe.

So you feel your loved Ones do not Understand you? What other people think of you is none of your business. Your Being is asking you to be yourself in strength. When you share yourself in joy you can easily be a threat to those who do not because they will reflect off you. Your radiance is enlivening them but they have to move in order to feel it and that is scary. So rejection or put down of you ...or even avoidance of you is their way of coping.

By all means temper what you feel but do not hide what you are. You are learning another lesson in being yourself without doubting. It is another opportunity to become stronger, surer of who you are. And sometimes it will mean that others will drift away from you and you from them. This is the Shift, things are all changing and the more you are willing to change the sweeter it will become. Trust yourself and trust the Universe.

It is conspiring to bring you greater opportunity to spread your wings of love that you have so longed for. Don't try to change others just strengthen your own radiance. It will always touch others. What they do about it or with it is their business. This is how we are changing the world, touch by touch.
Feel your radiance and Shine irrespective of what is happening around you.

Mel !